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# 不准搞社群!(設計對白) ## 授權 CC0(因為是 #rand0m 的訊息) by g0v contributors ## 貢獻者 - Ted 顥天 - ichieh - ronnywang - 菘菘 - Tiff - chihao (整理收錄 g0ver 發言而已) > 2022/7/1 16:52 由 chihao 整理第一版文件內容,如果有 g0ver 覺得不想被收錄,請逕自刪除或編修自己的發言(但不要改別人的發言比較好 XD) ### Ted 顥天 問:我已經不知道幾次沒有參加大松了,因為要讀書。我爸剛剛跟我說「希望暑假開始到會考完都不要碰開源、開放、零時政府、社群什麼的。」他的意思明顯就是一場都不行。然後這個「希望」想也知道是命令,我不知道該怎麼回答,他就因為我沒有回答開始發飆。剛剛跟我媽講電話,他改口說「暑假之後」,一直說我沒有資格參加社群。我該怎麼辦? ### ichieh 你先請他聽一下你的 podcast ### ronnywang 我當年老爸也有跟我說「你會電腦有什麼了不起,未來人人都會用電腦」。如果是我自己的經驗我會建議就把爸爸的話當耳邊風 XD ### ronnywang 不過為了家庭和諧也不要直接去頂撞,就想辦法表面上還是做一套讓他滿意的方法 ### 菘菘 或者要讓父母看起來你不是只有在弄這些東西,沒在顧學業,但也是可能遇到完全溝通不了的狀況 像是以前我父母以為我寫程式是在玩遊戲 XD ### ichieh 我以前也都說一套做一套(?) 有時候要演給他們看他們才會安心,可能說詞就是六日就是變成跟朋友出去唸書或聚會(歡迎在大松現場唸書) 如果爸爸願意一起來參加看看,或許可以看見你不一樣的一面,以及知道社群在幹嘛 ### Ted 顥天 在大松現場唸書(x 找同學一起到大松現場唸書(o ### Tiff 辛苦了!我以前都走先做再告知路線,或是告知被拒絕還是會默默做哈哈哈(當然有些大決定我就只能服從)。但如果我選擇要做,我就會邊做邊有一些成果就適時分享,心裡期待他們能用理解轉化思維,甚至也會邀請他們參加相關活動,因為有時候他們會反對是因為資訊落差,讓他們更理解自己的世界,他們比較能換位思考。雖然有時候會覺得為什麼做自己喜歡的事情還要一直用各種成果或努力證明自己⋯但想想如果爸媽一直不支持,甚至有衝突,即使做喜歡的事情還是不會太快樂⋯ ———— 而如果從老師視角來建議: 1.整理自己想做的事情的初衷、目標、作法、時程、未來發展性整理清楚,並先用文字或圖片表達,等他們看完後,再進行對話,因為面對面對話很容易因為當下情緒而無法好好表達及思考。藉此釐清自己的想法,也讓他們看到你的決心。 2.除了寫自己想做的事的的計畫,也撰寫一份要如何同時兼顧課程的計畫,包含時間分配、目標,讓他們清楚你是在意學業且願意投入的。 上述寫完後再好好坐下來溝通,聽聽他們看完的想法,找到共識。 3.邀請家長參加相關活動,如果他們不願意,可以試試交換條件,例如你達成什麼他們就要和你參與某個活動。 4.在平常生活中,和爸媽聊聊他們的生活、夢想等等,除了建立一些情感存款,也讓他們轉移目標,不要把期待放在孩子身上,而是把期待放回自身,當他們花心力追逐夢想,就會更能同理你,同時也不會一直過度關注你。另外有時候去了解爸媽的故事和生活,會多一些同理心,在對話時比較能夠試著從他們的角度思考。 5.如果和家長已經難以對話,可以找家長信任的第三方角色當橋樑,例如支持你的學校老師,由學校老師去和他談你想做的事情的意義與未來性。

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